Dear Grace

I have two men who want my attention. Both claim to love me but I don’t see either that way. I don’t want to hurt them but I don’t want to be in a relationship. What should I do?

 

Dear Love Triangle,

The answer is simple. If you don’t want them, tell them. Allow them to find people who do want them. It may hurt them, it may make them upset at you, but it’s kinder than to leave them hanging. It’s not fair to hold onto someone you don’t want. What I think you need to be asking yourself is why, if you don’t want a relationship, are keeping them around? Perhaps do some soul searching whilst you are at it.

Good luck,

Grace